How to Be a Better Lover
Men, listen up.
How to Be a Better Lover | by Relationship & Dating Advice for Men
First off, learning how to be a better lover is easy.
It’s sex.
Lol.
It’s always amazing sex!
Just kidding.
I’ve always been fascinated with relationships and how humans find authenticity. Especially after processing my childhood trauma (my parent's divorce), my father’s rampant cheating, and my mom’s rebound propensity for golf-lawyer-boyfriends named Ricky (whom I called Ricky-Ticky-Tavvy at family dinners).
But I regress.
How to be a better lover starts with…
Dialogue: F*ck couples therapy. Dialogue is couples therapy.
You are okay. You are whole, even bruised, damaged, and scared. We have everything we need to be here and now. All the psychology in the world doesn’t help us be present in our acceptance of now.
I’ll define dialogue (this is how I view it) as the open therapeutic place between humans, partners, or friends that decide for a moment there is no right or wrong. It’s where we can speak and listen and be free to express our feelings without judgment.
