Rumi Poems — on Love, Polyamory, and Grief?

and my questions about polyamory, grief, divorce, love, and lifelong partners

Relationship Advice Guy
4 min readDec 5, 2019
photo credit: goalcast.com

“The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.

Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.” — Rumi

You want love to find you, or you want to find it, but to be honest, you don’t know exactly how to do that without sacrificing something?

I listen to that little voice that tells me to wait for the right lover.

I know I have something more to give, but to whom?

How do I find them? Or her?

And more importantly, what kind of M&M’s does she like to eat… because I only eat Peanut Butter M&M’s?

*wink, wink.

Let me tell you a little story that ended in 1995 about a boy who loved his parents:

“We are getting a divorce,” my mom said.

“Wait, why?” I said, as a teenager. “You guys never argue. I thought you were the perfect couple.”

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Relationship Advice Guy

Love, dating, and relationship advice for men and women who skew douche (like I do).